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		<title>The School Budget Passed. Now What?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 20 May 2010 03:12:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[OK, let me fess up right away: the title of this post is a bit misleading. Frankly, I used it to get your attention. If you thought that I would be writing something about the school district and fiscal responsibility, I apologize. That certainly is a worthwhile topic, and I may write about it someday&#8230;but [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>OK, let me fess up right away: the title of this post is a bit misleading. Frankly, I used it to get your attention. If you thought that I would be writing something about the school district and fiscal responsibility, I apologize. That certainly is a worthwhile topic, and I may write about it someday&#8230;but not today. Today, I want to write about the teachers&#8217; contract negotiations. More specifically, about people&#8217;s attitudes towards the teachers, and their contract negotiation.</p>
<p>One more disclaimer before I get to the point of this post: I neither have an interest in writing about the merits of the positions taken by the parties to the negotiation, nor about whether or not the teachers are asking for too much (or too little). These issues have been debated in the community for many months now, and I have nothing new to add. However, <em>the fact that the teacher&#8217;s contract negotiations have been hotly debated in the community for many months</em> &#8212; now that&#8217;s interesting. Does anyone debate your salary? Mine? The guy who delivers your mail? The clerk who checked you out at Walmart? The CEO of Exxon-Mobil? No, the <em>only</em> salaries that I can think of that get publicly (and hotly) debated are those of our public school teachers. Why is that?</p>
<p>Well, there is a simple answer &#8212; which no doubt has already occurred to you &#8212; but like most simple answers, it only appears to address the question, while missing the key point entirely. It&#8217;s because we get to vote on the school budget, the vast majority of which goes to the salaries of the people who work in the schools, most of whom are teachers. And, as we know, once the budget is passed, it becomes a tax bill that we have to pay. So, the argument goes, since we pay the teachers&#8217; salaries, we have a right to have a say in how much they make. Sounds simple, right?</p>
<p>No, not really, since there&#8217;s an important question that no one is addressing: whose salaries don&#8217;t we pay? Whether it&#8217;s through taxes (e.g., the guys in the highway department or the clerk in the planning office), or via more direct transactions at Walmart, Amazon.com, or with a local handyman, we all pay each other&#8217;s salaries, through the money we spend or the taxes we pay. Where do you think the Schiavonis get the money to pay the workers at the IGA? They get it from you when you shop there, of course. If, next month they have to pay their workers higher wages, then they may have to charge you more for the meat, vegetables and dairy you buy. They have no other secret source of money with which to pay their workers. Neither does any other business. But, when was the last time there was a public debate about the produce manager&#8217;s salary? Or the plumber&#8217;s? (And, I think <em>he</em> definitely makes too much.) Does anyone write a letter to the editor criticizing the employees of the Variety Store because of a raise they asked for? And what about the CEO of Bridgehampton National Bank? I&#8217;ll bet the interest rate on my home equity loan would be lower if he made less.</p>
<p>What about the other (non-school) branches of government? After all, we pay the salaries of <em>everyone</em> in government with our tax dollars. The difference is that we don&#8217;t get to vote, even indirectly, on the salaries of the majority of government workers. However, we do get to vote on the school budget, and so we feel we have a right to decide how much teachers should earn. I&#8217;m sorry, but I think it is both logically and ethically indefensible to pick one group of employees out of all others and publicly criticize them for wanting the same thing that we all want: to make as much money as we can doing the jobs we&#8217;ve chosen to do.</p>
<p>At this point I have to say LOUDLY, that this has nothing to do with whether or not Sag Harbor&#8217;s teachers are greedy, selfish, or unreasonable. Maybe they are. Maybe they&#8217;re not. In this discussion, that&#8217;s beside the point. Perhaps <em>you</em> were greedy, selfish and unreasonable the last time <em>you</em> negotiated with <em>your</em> boss. Shall we discuss that here? No, I didn&#8217;t think so.</p>
<p>Basically, what I&#8217;m saying folks, is this: get a grip. Teachers, just like the rest of us &#8212; including me and you &#8212; have the right to ask for what they think they need to live the lives they want to live, without being publicly pilloried for doing so. This is America, after all, where we all have the right to chase success, however we define it, in whatever way we choose.</p>
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		<title>The Five Top Problems Facing Sag Hampton</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:22:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Over Development / Inappropriate Development Simply put, over development is the poison that will kill the golden goose. As we all know, people love this area because of its natural beauty, open vistas, fresh air, and rural feel. It doesn&#8217;t take a genius to figure out that suburban sprawl, McMansion ghettos, charmless villages filled with [...]]]></description>
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<li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Over Development / Inappropriate Development</span><br />
Simply put, over development is the poison that will kill the golden goose. As we all know, people love this area because of its natural beauty, open vistas, fresh air, and rural feel. It doesn&#8217;t take a genius to figure out that suburban sprawl, McMansion ghettos, charmless villages filled with chain boutiques and real estate offices, condos lining the waterfront, mega-yachts clogging the harbors and bumper to bumper traffic are the antithesis of the characteristics that made this place desirable. Yet, all that and more just keeps on coming. So, as we approach full build out &#8212; a scenario that&#8217;s not nearly as far away as you might think &#8212; it is ever more imperative that we speed up our progress towards that &#8220;goal&#8221; (full build-out) by dramatically reducing the amount of land available for development through upzoning and open space preservation.</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Automobile</span><br />
If you live in the remote reaches of Northwest, or somewhere towards the middle of Deerfield Road in Water Mill, you better have a car so you can get to work, shopping, or the doctor&#8217;s office, because there just isn&#8217;t any other way to get there. Looked at the other way around, the fact that we almost all  have cars, has made it possible for us to build houses in these remote areas. Without cars, most of us wouldn&#8217;t put up with the inconvenience of living so far from the hamlets and villages where essential services are located. This, in a nutshell, is the cause and effect of the suburban sprawl that is rapidly destroying the beautiful vistas, unspoiled woodlands, pristine coastline and rural feeling of this area. Getting people out of their cars is a worthy goal on many levels, but one that seems almost impossible to achieve. One technique that has some hope of working, is smart growth: pushing development in close to the hamlets and villages through intensive upzoning of areas further away from the hamlet centers, and incenting developers to build and re-purpose properties closer in. This has the effect of increasing density to the point that some forms of public transportation make sense, thus getting people out of their cars, at least some of the time.</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold;">The Cost of Living</span><br />
A community consisting entirely of wealthy second-home owners is not a sustainable community. As the cost of homes (and everything else) rises, working people are driven out of the community, as are the businesses they need to sustain them, and which are in turn, sustained by them. Eventually, the community itself is gone, replaced by a make-believe version that only exists for a few months of the year, and has no ability to provide the underpinnings of a real community such as a volunteer fire department and ambulance service, police department, and local government. Wealthy part-time residents don&#8217;t volunteer to serve in the fire department, or run for local office. Police can be brought in from somewhere else, but will not be as effective as a force made up, at least partially, of local residents. When local family businesses close, because their customers have been driven out of the area, what will replace them? Who will we turn to for groceries, hardware, and other household necessities? Ralph Lauren? Starbucks?  Corcoran?</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Provincialism/Nimbyism</span><br />
Either we all bail together, or we all sink together. Don&#8217;t want that windmill in your neighbor&#8217;s yard, or that wind farm off your coastline? Well then, tell us where we can locate them, or sit back and watch your house disappear under the rising ocean. Don&#8217;t want that bicycle path running next to your estate, or cutting across your greenbelt? Well then, you&#8217;ll just have to put up with more automobile traffic and the massive amounts of pollution it generates. Don&#8217;t want affordable housing in your community? Then say good-bye to your community (see #3 above). This problem isn&#8217;t unique to individuals either; it also applies to local governments. One example of this type of provincialism with which I am familiar is in the area of transportation. In order to solve the area&#8217;s transportation problems, it is necessary for all five east end towns to work together. Local government officials understand this, and yet only pay lip service to the concept. One town doesn&#8217;t want ferries. Another doesn&#8217;t want buses. Another wants to sue the one that doesn&#8217;t want ferries. Villages block improvements to roads because the businesspeople in those villages are afraid their bottom lines may be hurt if a few parking spaces are lost. The net result is that we&#8217;re all so busy protecting our backyards that we don&#8217;t notice that the house is burning down.</li>
<li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Loss of Place</span><br />
A sense of place is not something you can fake. I&#8217;m a big fan of historic preservation, but when I see the facades of historic buildings acting as camouflage for obscenely swollen McMansions tucked away behind the original modest structures, I am keenly aware that something important has been lost. When local agriculture, once a mainstay of the East End&#8217;s economy has come to mean horse farms for polo ponies and jumpers, a way of life that defined this area has slipped through our fingers, along with the definition it provided. When what was traditionally an artist&#8217;s community has more art galleries than working artists, it&#8217;s an indicator that the community&#8217;s balance has shifted away from individualism and towards commercialism. When the vast majority of the people who work here come from someplace else, a large hole has been torn in the fabric of the community that robs it of its sense of place. An authentic sense of place is what makes a community vibrant. For generations, people have come here because eastern Long Island was a &#8220;real&#8221; place. Once that&#8217;s gone &#8212; and we&#8217;re pretty darn close to losing it &#8212; well, once that&#8217;s gone, what&#8217;s left is Disneyland.</li>
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		<title>Is There Poverty in the Hamptons?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Oct 2008 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I'm taking part in Blog Action Day, which is today, October 15, 2008. On this day, bloggers all over the world are writing on one topic: poverty. Most blogs have a theme -- something that serves as the subject matter, or at least background -- for all the articles in the blog. Some themes lend themselves more easily to a post on poverty than others. My theme, as you probably know, is the Hamptons, with a focus on Sag Harbor. Poverty, in any form, rarely comes to mind when one discusses the Hamptons, except perhaps as the antithesis of the Sag Hampton lifestyle. This makes writing about poverty a bit of a challenge for me, if I'm going to try to stick to my theme -- which I mostly try to do.
So, I thought a little research might be in order to find out if there is any poverty in the Hamptons. Here's what I found out: ..
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m taking part in Blog Action Day, which is today, October 15, 2008. On this day, bloggers all over the world are writing on one topic: poverty. Most blogs have a theme &#8212; something that serves as the subject matter, or at least background &#8212; for all the articles in the blog. Some themes lend themselves more easily to a post on poverty than others. My theme, as you probably know, is the Hamptons, with a focus on Sag Harbor. Poverty, in any form, rarely comes to mind when one discusses the Hamptons, except perhaps as the antithesis of the Sag Hampton lifestyle. This makes writing about poverty a bit of a challenge for me, if I&#8217;m going to try to stick to my theme &#8212; which I mostly try to do. </p>
<p>So, I thought a little research might be in order to find out if there is any poverty in the Hamptons. Here&#8217;s what I found out:</p>
<p>According to <a href="http://www.nationmaster.com/encyclopedia/Southampton-%28town%29%2C-New-York">NationMaster.com</a>, data from the 2000 Census (the latest data available) shows that in the Town of Southampton, &#8220;The median income for a household in the town is $53,887, and the median income for a family is $65,144. Males have a median income of $47,167 versus $32,054 for females. The per capita income for the Town is $31,320. <span style="font-style: italic;">8.3% of the population and 5.3% of families are below the poverty line. Out of the total population, 10.2% of those under the age of 18 and 6.0% of those 65 and older are living below the poverty line.</span>&#8220;</p>
<p>In the Town of East Hampton in the year 2000 (again, according to <a href="http://www.nationmaster.com/encyclopedia/East-Hampton-%28town%29,-New-York#External_links">NationMaster.com</a>) the situation was similar. &#8220;The median income for a household in the town is $52,201 and the median income for a family is $60,743. Males have a median income of $42,041 versus $31,732 for females. The per capita income for the Town is $31,300. <span style="font-style: italic;">9% of the population and 6.7% of families are below the poverty line. Out of the total population, 11.2% of those under the age of 18 and 6.2% of those 65 and older are living below the poverty line.</span>&#8220;&nbsp; (This data was corrected by me to reflect actual <a href="http://factfinder.census.gov/servlet/SAFFFacts?_event=ChangeGeoContext&amp;geo_id=06000US3610322194&amp;_geoContext=&amp;_street=&amp;_county=east+hampton&amp;_cityTown=east+hampton&amp;_state=04000US36&amp;_zip=&amp;_lang=en&amp;_sse=on&amp;ActiveGeoDiv=&amp;_useEV=&amp;pctxt=fph&amp;pgsl=010/">U.S. Census</a> data for the Town of East Hampton. The NationMaster article reported data for the East Hampton CDP&nbsp; &#8212; Census Designated Place &#8212; which is different than the Town. Don&#8217;t ask me how it&#8217;s different; I only have so much patience for research.)</p>
<p>The government uses <a href="http://www.census.gov/hhes/www/poverty/threshld.html">a table</a> to determine the poverty level for households of differing compositions. Here are two examples for the year 2000: A household of four people, two of them under 18 years of age, would be classified as poor if their annual income was below $17,463; a household of two people where the &#8220;householder&#8221; is over sixty-five would be classified as poor if their annual income was below $10,419. (Those figures were increased to $21,550 and $12,027 respectively for the year 2007.) <span style="font-style: italic;">Combined, the two towns comprising the South Fork had a population of 74,431 in the year 2000, of which 6,126 individuals lived in government-defined poverty. That&#8217;s 8.2% of the population, </span><span style="font-style: italic;">over 1,000 families</span><span style="font-style: italic;">, who were living in poverty in the Hamptons in the year 2000.</span> </p>
<p>As a point of reference, a couple who are both employed full time (37.5 hours/week) in minimum wage ($7.15 p.h.) jobs, working 51 weeks a year (1 week unpaid vacation, no sick days, no personal days) would gross $27,349 for that year. If they have two children, they would be slightly above the 2007 poverty level &#8212; assuming neither one misses much work due to personal or family illness, or other obligations.</p>
<p>So, clearly, the answer is yes, there is poverty in the Hamptons. Who is poor? My research abilities do not extend to that level of detail, but I&#8217;m guessing I know at least one family, probably more, who are struggling to make ends meet here in one of the nation&#8217;s wealthiest communities. I&#8217;m also guessing a few of my retired friends may be close to the poverty borderline too, especially now, after the recent economic meltdown has either jacked up their mortgage rate, devastated their invested retirement funds, or both.</p>
<p>Then, of course, we have the sad state of affairs, often commented on in this blog: the complete lack of affordable housing. This dearth of reasonably priced places to live&nbsp; is driving lower- and middle-class people out of the area. Even with what might be considered adequate incomes elsewhere, these folks can&#8217;t find a place to live in Sag Hampton. Now, compounding this crisis &#8212; and a crisis is what it is for reasons that have been documented elsewhere on this blog &#8212; we have the credit crunch, which makes getting a mortgage impossible even for those half-dozen or so lucky individuals who have actually found a home they can afford to buy.</p>
<p>But, I digress. From a poverty perspective, the &#8220;affordable housing&#8221; problem is not about the folks who can&#8217;t find a place to live, it&#8217;s about those who have managed to find a place to call home, but in order to afford it have to devote an impossibly high percentage of their income to paying the rent or mortgage. At the end of every month they then find themselves without enough money to pay for other necessities of life. The result is a class of people who, while earning incomes substantially above the government&#8217;s poverty level, still can&#8217;t afford to both eat and get healthcare; pay their taxes, and buy fuel oil; buy work clothes and buy gas to get to work. It&#8217;s poverty Sag Hampton style, but the effects are nonetheless debilitating. Ultimately, these families are forced to make a decision as to whether they want to stay here, in the communities in which they were nurtured, close to family and friends, or to move somewhere else where they will be able to afford <span style="font-style: italic;">all </span>the necessities of life.</p>
<p>So, poverty comes in different forms. I wouldn&#8217;t think of comparing the plight of cash-strapped homeowners in Sag Harbor, to the refugees in Darfur. The suffering faced by refugees and the victims of war, famine, despotic governments, and natural disasters, the world over is several orders of magnitude more severe than anything seen in Sag Hampton. Yet, poverty on any level has serious repercussions for both the individual and the community. Our towns and the people in them are not immune to this disease; it&#8217;s here among us and requires a personal response from each of us. In the land of the $10.00 bowl of oatmeal, no one should be cold or hungry.</p>
<p>Do something: <br /><a href="http://www.sagharborfoodpantry.com/">The Sag Harbor Food Pantry</a><br /><a href="http://www.licares.org/">Long Island Cares</a><br /><a href="http://hfhpeconic.org/default.asp">Peconic Habitat for Humanity</a></p>
<p>If you know of other worthwhile local organizations, please add their contact information in the comments. Thanks.</p>
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		<title>Blog Action Day, Oct. 15</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Aug 2008 23:08:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you have a blog? If so, you may want to join the blog action day campaign, which will take place on October 15th. This year's theme is poverty. (Last year's was the environment.) The idea is to focus the conversation in as many blogs, video blogs and podcasts as possible on that day on the subject of poverty. So, for example, I'll be writing a post about some aspect of poverty as it relates to Sag Hampton. The Blog Action Day organizers explain their motivation thusly:
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[Do you have a blog? If so, you may want to join the blog action day campaign, which will take place on October 15th. This year's theme is poverty. (Last year's was the environment.) The idea is to focus the conversation in as many blogs, video blogs and podcasts as possible on that day on the subject of poverty. So, for example, I'll be writing a post about some aspect of poverty as it relates to Sag Hampton. The Blog Action Day organizers explain their motivation thusly:
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		<title>Sag Harbor: Alive, Well and Still Kickin&#8217;</title>
		<link>http://www.saghampton.com/2008/07/sag-harbor-alive-well-and-still-kickin/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 31 Jul 2008 00:49:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<P>Observed in and around Sag Harbor recently:</P>
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<LI>More Priuses per block than anywhere else I've been;</LI>
<LI>Tibetan Monks running programs at the Unitarian Universalist Church <EM>and</EM> North Haven Village Hall;</LI>
<LI>Heavy trunout for meetings of the various Village Boards;</LI>
<LI>A rejuvenated public library with more visitors, circulation, programs and joi de vive than ever;</LI>
<LI>An Alternative Energy Fair at the Whaling Museum, which also seems pretty spry...</LI>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Observed in and around Sag Harbor recently:</p>
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<li>More Priuses per block than perhaps anywhere else&nbsp;in the country;</li>
<li>Tibetan Monks running programs at the Unitarian Universalist Church <em>and</em> North Haven Village Hall;</li>
<li>Heavy trunout for meetings of the various Village Boards;</li>
<li>A rejuvenated public library with more visitors, circulation, programs and joie de vivre than ever;</li>
<li>An Alternative Energy Fair at the Whaling Museum, which also seems pretty spry these days;</li>
<li>An agressive and effective <em>Greening of Sag Harbor</em> Committee;</li>
<li>An agressive and effective <em>Save Sag Harbor </em>group;</li>
<li>Our very own (aggressive and effective) Town Councilperson, in the person of Sag Harbor (soon to be Noyac) resident, Anna Throne-Holst;</li>
<li>Our very&nbsp;own baseball team;</li>
<li>For better or worse (depending on your point of view), a green light for the renovation of the Bulova watchcase factory;</li>
<li>A rambunctuous public meeting (or two) of the Sag Harbor School Board at which the community voiced its opinion loudly and clearly, and the Board, in its own way, responded;</li>
<li>An activist Village government that is not only trying to protect Sag Harbor&#8217;s future, but listens and responds to the concerns of residents and businesses as it goes about its business;</li>
<li>The Hamptons Music Festival at the Old Whalers&#8217; Church;</li>
<li>The bigger than ever Bay Street Theatre Gala back on Long Wharf;</li>
<li>A&nbsp;sparkling new website for our <em>home town newspaper, <a href="http://sagharborexpress.sagharborpublishing.com/shexpress/">The Sag Harbor Express</a>;</em></li>
<li>And, under the category of &#8220;things never stand still in Sag Harbor&#8221; the iconic Sag Harbor Movie Theater is apparently up for sale!!</li>
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<p>I sometimes&nbsp;(okay, often) find myself slipping into the role of local curmudgeon here at Sag Hampton,&nbsp;forgetting&nbsp;the qualities that drew me to&nbsp;this town&nbsp;some thirty years ago. So, while Sag Harbor may need &#8220;saving&#8221; (and I believe it does), it&#8217;s&nbsp;good to look around now and then to remember that&nbsp;Sag Harbor is still an exciting and vibrant place to live, work, play&nbsp;and raise a family.</p>
<p>Did I leave out your favorite sign of life in Sag Harbor? Add it in the comments area below.</p>
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		<title>Is This the Land of No?</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 May 2007 03:32:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometime it feels like we're living in the Land of No. There are quite a few things in recent memory to which one or another Sag Hampton group has said (or tried to say) NO!<br /><br />Many folks said no to the NYS Department of Transportation a few years ago when they proposed a roundabout at the wharf end of Main ...
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometime it feels like we&#8217;re living in the Land of No. There are quite a few things in recent memory to which one or another Sag Hampton group has said (or tried to say) NO!</p>
<p>Many folks said no to the NYS Department of Transportation a few years ago when they proposed a roundabout at the wharf end of Main Street.</p>
<p>CONPOSH (Coalition of Neighborhoods for the Preservation Of Sag Harbor) and others said no to the expansion of 127 Main Street by its former owner, Jon Gruen.</p>
<p>The John Jermain Future Fund said no to the idea of a new library building near Mashashimuet Park.</p>
<p>The Sag Harbor CAC (Citizens Advisory Committee) &#8212; of which I am co-chair &#8212; tried to say no to the new Bayburger Restaurant opening soon on the Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike.</p>
<p>More successfully, the CAC said no to the Reid brothers&#8217; plans to expand their service station to include a full-service car wash, and large parking facility for the use of contractors working locally.</p>
<p>Many in the community, including columnist Tony Brandt and newspaper editor Rick Murphy, would very much like to say no the the Sag Harbor School District&#8217;s&nbsp; budget.</p>
<p>The Water Mill CAC, and the Village of Southampton are attempting to say no to LIPA&#8217;s effort to run new power lines on immense 60&#8242; metal poles through the Village and parts of Water Mill and Bridgehampton.</p>
<p>Neighbors tried to say no to Wolffer Vineyard&#8217;s effort to erect new workforce housing on Narrow Lane in Bridgehampton, adjacent to the vineyard.</p>
<p>Almost everyone on Long Island, except the mayor of Greenport, wants to say a loud no to Broadwater&#8217;s floating Liquid Natural Gas terminal proposed for Long Island Sound.</p>
<p>Many, many people, including County Executive Steve Levy as well as the Southampton Town Board, and East Hampton Village&#8217;s powers-that-be are vociferously saying no to any kind of hiring hall or worklink center for day laborers wherever they gather looking for work.</p>
<p>Some folks in Sag Harbor want to say no to the new condominiums proposed for the area at the foot of the North Haven Bridge where the Sag Harbor Professional Building now stands.</p>
<p>Back to Narrow Lane where (the same?) residents said no to a bike lane along their street.</p>
<p>Sag Harbor citizenry said a most definite no to the purchase of two properties adjacent to the High School by the school district.</p>
<p>Barnes and Noble in Bridgehampton? No.</p>
<p>Affordable housing Remsenberg/Speonk? No.</p>
<p>Anti-war protesters in Southampton&#8217;s Independence Day Parade? No. (Well maybe, now that the courts have spoken.)</p>
<p>How about expanding Sunrise Highway all the way to the Bridgehampton-Sag Harbor Turnpike so that then-Governor Hugh Carey could get to his summer home on Shelter Island more easily? No. (Alright, that was a <i>really</i> dumb idea.)</p>
<p>A nuclear reactor in Shoreham? No way. (Yeah, that one was pretty dumb too.)</p>
<p>I could go on. I seem to have an almost photographic memory for ideas and projects that were shot down by community activists and/or local government. Frankly, I was one of the community activists expressing my disapproval in many (but not all) of the aforementioned instances. While I don&#8217;t regret my involvement in those issues, the cumulative weight of all those &#8220;nos&#8221; has got me thinking that I&#8217;m really <i>tired</i> of saying no. I&#8217;ve reached the point where I just want to say YES to something. Yes, Yes and Yes. And I&#8217;m going to start right now.</p>
<p>I say yes to Mike and Pat Trunzo&#8217;s proposal to create a mixed-use affordable housing/office development on their property on the Turnpike.</p>
<p>Yes to Five Towns Rural Transits&#8217; efforts to create a light-rail and bus network here on the East End.</p>
<p>Yes to a new and/or expanded Library, wherever it may be located.</p>
<p>Yes to the Sag Harbor Village zoning code overhaul, and the Mayor&#8217;s and Trustees&#8217; efforts to create more opportunities for affordable housing in the village&#8230;and yes to accessory apartments.</p>
<p>Yes to cops and cones on County Road 39, whatever the hell it costs.</p>
<p>Yes to more bike lanes, sidewalks and safer routes for kids walking and biking to school.</p>
<p>And finally, yes to acknowledging our common humanity and kinship to each other; to treating all people with dignity and respect; and so, yes to providing safe places where people who want to do needed work can find the work they need to do to support themselves and their families.<br />&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;-<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Currently listening to:</span>&nbsp;<a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2F69-Love-Songs-Magnetic-Fields%2Fdp%2Fsamples%2FB00000JY1X%3Fie%3DUTF8%26qid%3D1179200190%26sr%3D1-1%23disc%5F3&amp;tag=sagham-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325" target="_blank">Long-Forgotten Fairytale</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=sagham-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" alt="" style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" border="0" height="1" width="1"> by The Magnetic Fields</p>
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		<title>What I Learned About Love Today</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 May 2007 03:06:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today, May 6th, 2007, is my wife's, Bobbie, and my 35th wedding anniversary. Over that period of time, my wife has taught me how to love. How to love her, how to love myself, how to love humankind. She's that kind of person. It's been a long haul -- for her -- but I think I'm finally getting the hang of it. ...
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today, May 6th, 2007, is my wife&#8217;s, Bobbie, and my 35th wedding anniversary. Over that period of time, Bobbie has taught me how to love &#8212; how to love her, how to love myself, how to love humankind. She&#8217;s that kind of person. It&#8217;s been a long haul &#8212; for her &#8212; but I think I&#8217;m finally getting the hang of it. I think about the power of&nbsp; love a lot when I&#8217;m around her, especially on significant days such as today.</p>
<p>But that&#8217;s not the only reason I&#8217;ve been meditating on love. If you&#8217;re lucky enough to live in the Sag Hampton area, you get to read a pretty good local newspaper, <span style="font-style: italic;">The Sag Harbor Express</span>, that occasionally has moments of brilliance. Such a moment occurred in the issue of May 3rd, in which two op-ed pieces were published that raised the level of discourse in our village to a level rarely seen in a local weekly, and they got me thinking about love, too.</p>
<p>The first article by Robbie Vorhaus, a CNN correspondent and communications consultant, is entitled <span style="font-style: italic;">The Sag Harbor Effect: One Less, One More. </span>In this essay, Vorhaus starts by positing that no one he knows isn&#8217;t stressed. He then goes on to offer a simple prescription for a new movement which he hopes will sweep the world, relaxing the world&#8217;s six billion or so inhabitants. He suggests that we can start it right here in Sag Harbor, because&#8230;well, why not? On that basis he named it the Sag Harbor Effect. However, the real genius in his idea, and the part that got me thinking deeply about love, is in the details of his plan enumerated below: 
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<li>Choose to live in faith and the perfection of this moment.</li>
<li>Choose to believe we are all connected; better than nobody, nobody better.</li>
<li>Choose to smile.</li>
<li>Choose to consciously have positive thoughts and feel better.</li>
<li>Choose to focus on the gifts and blessings you have.</li>
<li>No blame.</li>
<li>Forgive, and forgive yourself, too.</li>
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<p>Finally, Vorhaus offers an easy entree to implementing these changes. Choose one negative thing you do, and do one less of it. Also, choose one positive thing you want to do, and do one more of it.</p>
<p>I believe what Vorhaus suggests is simply putting love first in your life &#8212; love for yourself, love for the world (as it is), and love for your fellow beings. Read the synopsis of his essay above again, and see if you don&#8217;t come to the same conclusion.</p>
<p>The second op-ed piece, by Richard Gambino, a professor emeritus at Queens College, is called <span style="font-style: italic;">Murder and Malice at Virginia Tech</span>. It&#8217;s a bit more of a stretch to assert that Gambino is writing about love, and yet&#8230;</p>
<p>What he actually says is that bad things happen, and that we must have great courage to go on living our daily lives while acknowledging that we have little or no control over these things. People do very bad things and when they do &#8220;they&#8217;ve committed a kind of odious treason against our humanity. And living with this takes the most courage of all.&#8221;</p>
<p>He also expresses sympathy with the existential viewpoint that each of us is defined by what we in fact think, feel and do (see Vorhaus, above), and concludes with a statement of faith by saying: </p>
<p>&#8220;So I tell myself to have courage, and I help my courage by everything from looking into the eyes of caring people to turning on a CD in my car of Beethoven&#8217;s Leonre Overture #3, wonderful things that help put human malice in perspective. </p>
<p>&#8220;Consciousness is at once a great gift and a terrible burden. To give up the gift to avoid the burden is to give in to fear and stifle one&#8217;s own life.&#8221;</p>
<p>Again, maybe because of my own predisposition, I see this statement as a reaffirmation in the power of love to sustain us. Especially, its power to overcome its own antithesis: fear.</p>
<p>These two thoughtful and caring messages are strong testaments to humanity&#8217;s better instincts and to our ability to heal ourselves and others through love. How amazing that they appear one above the other in our small-town weekly newspaper. Sag Hampton is indeed a special place. Be glad you live here. Be very glad.</p>
<p>Oh, and by the way, spread the Sag Harbor Effect. Start today&#8230;I know my wife will, and following her excellent example, I will too.</p>
<p>(You can read both articles mentioned above in their entirety at <a href="http://www.sagharboronline.com/20070503/news.htm" target="_blank">Sagharboronline.com</a>.)</p>
<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<br /><span style="font-weight: bold;">Currently listening to:</span> <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/redirect.html?ie=UTF8&amp;location=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.amazon.com%2FHonesty-Room-Dar-Williams%2Fdp%2FB000002ZC5%3Fie%3DUTF8%26s%3Dmusic%26qid%3D1178506059%26sr%3D1-1&amp;tag=sagham-20&amp;linkCode=ur2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325" target="_blank">When I Was a Boy</a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=sagham-20&amp;l=ur2&amp;o=1" alt="" style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important;" border="0" height="1" width="1"> by Dar Williams.</p>
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